For this self-directed co-curricular event, you are invited to consider the various callings in your life by sharing and reflecting upon a conversation outside of class about your vocation, discernment, and life-long endeavor of living well. This conversation should help you practice considering the most timely questions of, “What should I do with my time at Notre Dame?” and “Who am I called to be while at Notre Dame and why?”
“The example and the prayers of others may help us to find our way in this work. But we alone can do it.” (Merton, p. 136.) Often, others can help us see things we cannot see ourselves. This brief conversation can help you integrate the readings and your class discussion with an outside perspective on your life, memories, and callings.
Guidelines
Identify a conversation partner who can offer a nuanced and informed perspective on your life thus far. The best partner for this conversation knows you well, has witnessed you in a variety of environments, and can be honest and direct. Invite this partner to join you in an intentional conversation in which you both can offer full attention and thoughtfulness. Your conversation should last at least 45 minutes. After your conversation, record at least five quotes or observations in your commonplace book and reflect upon them.
Potential Questions
You may wish to use the following question to ignite your conversation. These questions should not, however, dictate your discussion. Rather, they should help spur dynamic and honest conversation.
- Why am I studying at the University of Notre Dame?
- What do you think I most value, most believe, or most desire in life? Why?
- Can you reflect on a specific episode when you saw me “in the zone,” when I was at my very best? What was I doing? How/Why does this episode demonstrate my best self?
- What issues are important to me? Or, what do you think I want to change in the world?
- What life lessons have you seen me learn and/or apply?
- What is something that is difficult to say but important for me to hear?